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Thursday, 15 November 2012

Challenge: Below The (Poverty) Line, Part 2 of 2

Filed under: Bestie Boy,Food,Personal Beliefs — by For you, Daddy! @ 4:30 am
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Last week, I began a series on the two challenges I set myself up for this year. This is the second and concluding part of the first of the two challenges.

 

 

To read about how I got started on this challenge, please read my last post:

 

 

Challenge:  Below The (Poverty) Line, Part 1 of 2

(https://foryoudaddy.wordpress.com/2012/11/01/challenge-below-the-poverty-line-part-1-of-2/)

 

 

To find out how I fared with that challenge, well, read on.

 

 

A reminder. Bestie Boy’s text in green and mine in brown.

 

 


 

 

Me: Duuuuude! I so limbo’d through the week, yo! Uh huh, shimmy’d ‘n duck’d below that frakking line! 

 

 

 

Oppan! This NO Gangnam style! 😉

 

 

 

Okay, okay, I know I foolishly compare something as horrific as poverty to happy times like dancing. What I was getting at is, I’ve just completed my dinner that capped a (work) week of dieting below the poverty line. (Dieting – again, a wrong choice of word, I know, but I think that’s what dieting feels like.) Quite tempted to celebrate right now with a slice of chocolate cake that’s oozing my name in trickles in the box it lies in.

 

 

Right. Ditching the drama; cutting to the crux.

 

 

Refraining from the beyond-basic extras wasn’t as hard as I suspected it would be, thanks to my ability to move a few gears in my head. Yes, yes, I really want to show off attaining the spiritual goal I hoped to with this challenge.  

 

 

First, the ‘give the devil his due’ stuff. I hadn’t read about this challenge anywhere. So a very special ‘Thank You’ for sounding me about it, Bestie Boy.

 

 

Thanks to this challenge, I also finally know what I’m going to gift Liam* for his birthday this year!

*Liam is my friend who is a (Catholic) priest.

 

 

In Liam’s name, I’ll do something with the money I have saved skipping the frills this week. It’s a toss-up between giving him the amount for his street boys’ shelter or giving someone something edible right here in my city. As you know, I don’t give donations per se. I like to deny myself something and “donate” the money I would have spent on that temporary luxury. My travelling second class on long distance trains make sense now? I feel like a flippin’ saint when I suffer through stuff like that for this reason! I find this manner of giving fulfilling.

 

 

Liam doesn’t like receiving personal gifts, but he likes it when someone more deserving gets whatever-it-is instead. What’s that saying again? Ah, this.

 

 

Show me who your friends are and I’ll tell you what you are. “ ~ Daddy

(Google doesn’t know the true source.)

 

 

Bestie Boy: Poverty and its resultant deprivations are something I think about often, anyway.

 

 

Me:  Oh? Oh-kay. I know you’ve experienced periods of deprivation on occasion during your student days at uni, but I did not know you were aware in times of bounty.

 

 

Bestie Boy: I’m a [the university he studied at] student; of course, I think about these things! Just by process of osmosis, I think anyone who has ever stepped foot inside [the university he studied at] will be instantly made aware of these kinds of things.

 

 

But sadly, I did not take part in the ‘Under the Line(https://www.livebelowtheline.com/) initiative. It was much-talked about in the office, so I guess we raised some awareness.

 

 

Me: Fo sho! I learned about it through you. In any case, awareness is the first step towards making any kind of change.

 

 

Remember how I cribbed because I did not read about this challenge anywhere? Well, I found an article in some business section after the event, and I saved the following excerpt to share with you whenever we got down to talking about this.

 

 

The article is about the writer’s experience. He focussed mainly on how he budgeted for the challenge, but this excerpt is what I found more interesting. The writer’s text in blue; my two bits in … yeah, you know.

 

 

Of course, as a friend pointed out, many genuinely poor people wouldn’t bother cooking at all – they would simply buy £5 worth of spaghetti hoops, spam and own-brand biscuits and get by on them. Well, maybe so, but I reckon part of this challenge is to try and live in a sustainable, reasonably healthy way. And I did feel quite detoxed by Friday, after five days with no booze, very little fat and no sugar (almost). (I did not think of this benefit! Detoxed – ha ha!)

 

 

But I wouldn’t want to have to live below the line for any more than a week at a time [Me neither. I didn’t enjoy the process. 😦 ] – it really made me realise the luxury of choice that you take for granted when you have enough money. 

 

 

Bestie Boy: I liked the last line of the article you included in blue: – it really made me realise the luxury of choice that you take for granted when you have enough money. 

 

 

I think that’s what the campaign is all about really: realising how lucky we are.

 

 

Me: “Realising how lucky we are (/I am)” wasn’t the reason I jumped at it. Noble and worthy and all that jazz as the thought was, I dove into the challenge to challenge myself with something else.

 

Deprive myself of my favourite food – check!

Go a whole day with no food*  – check!

*Good Friday and the times I emulated my Muslim colleagues in Saudi Arabia during Ramadan.

 

Both have been checked off several times to not make me bat an eyelid anymore over the thought. But eat the absolute boring-ish basics and get myself to not just refrain from not eating the fun-nest parts of the meals*, but not crave these luxuries? That was the biggest test for me.

 

 

*Raisins, flax seed, dates, jaggery and saffron strands with my porridge

Fish at lunch

Meat at dinner

Dessert after both meals

and

My fruit, veggie, nuts and junk snacks 

 

 

 

This is typically how I eat.

This image is from www.rd.com 

 

 

Thank you, Team at Chapter Q8,

(http://www.chapterq8.com/)

on whose page

10 Ways to Right-Size Your Meals

(http://www.chapterq8.com/?tag=healthy

I found this image. 

 

 

 

Everything Isabella cooks at home is stuff I like. The simple, healthy variety, mostly. Mum and I get a lot of food gifts, but tempting as it all is, that’s pure junk. So I restrict our consumption of that and I give away most of it to those who aren’t as fastidious as Mum and I are.  

 

 

Every time I eat, out of habit that I’d cultivated shortly before I moved to China, I am conscious of what goes into my belly as part of my mindfulness (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mindfulness) and gratitude practices. 

 

 

 

Thank you, Susan, John and Erin, for granting me permission to use your article to explain the

Attitude of Gratitude

(http://www.happylifeu.com/Attitude-of-Gratitude.html)

on your website,

Happy Life U’.

(http://www.happylifeu.com/)  

 

 

Not easy to be (the one on the) right.

This image is from

http://thinkwonderfulthoughts.wordpress.com/2012/02/21/mindfulness/

 

 

 

Me: As you’ve seen, being aware and being thankful are now routine for me. These two practices (along with a few more) are why I believe that my vita is dolce indeed.

 

 

This image is from dreamstime (http://www.dreamstime.com/)

 

 

When darkness rolls into my life,

I remind myself

that the sun will rise from behind the clouds.  

 

 



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Thursday, 1 November 2012

Challenge: Below The (Poverty) Line, Part 1 of 2

Filed under: Bestie Boy,Food,Personal Beliefs — by For you, Daddy! @ 4:30 am
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With 2012 beginning its ebb, I will do a recap of sorts.  

 

 

In my next three posts, I will share some of my first-time experiences this year. As the title says, they were challenges. And I took them quite personally.

 

 

The first two posts in this series are about the same challenge; the third and last post will be about a different challenge.

 

 

I will narrate my experiences via excerpts of my e-mail correspondence with Bestie Boy circa April-May 2012. As always, his text will be in green and mine in brown. 

 

 


 

 

Bestie Boy: Someone in the office just mentioned this challenge of living below the poverty line, and my ears pricked up.  

 

 

Live Below The Line

(https://www.livebelowtheline.com/)

 

 

 

If looking at this picture is hard, can you imagine what living that reality must be like?

 

 

 

Bestie Boy: We’re all thinking of doing it when it starts on 7th May. Could you bear to give up nice grub for 5 days, Kate?

 

 

Bestie Boy throws down the gauntlet.

 

 

Me: I’ll give you this – you’re clever; very clever. Which is a good thing because (your) looks go only so far with me.

 

 

I had a successful Lent this year. Remember I said, “I was proud of myself for not having craved my favourite food for 40 days and 40 nights?” You pointed out that ‘proud’ would make me egotistic about it. So I thought about it, and I realise ‘proud’ was the incorrect word to use. I was more relieved not to crave those things, and my belief in my stubbornness determination was strengthened. Is that still egotistic?

 

 

Anyway, this challenge will be different from my Lenten ones because here, I won’t be allowed to eat a lot. During Lent, I give up the things I love, but I am never hungry at any point. This challenge will pinch. Hard.  

 

 

 

 Thank you, Margo and Alan, for permitting me the use of your image.

Those two blokes live in my head. Really.

 

 

I like when I’m put to the test. So travelling 2nd class on the long distance trains and on public transport around the city (and everywhere else) is not good enough for this masochist. I’m raisin’ ‘em stakes with this, baby. And I’m gonna drive one (stake) right through the organ that will hurt me the most – my breadbasket. Oooh, imagine how much more I’ll brag if I actually go through with this. Well, earning the, ahem, right to be a bragasaurus is the main reason I do these things, don’t I? 😉

 

 

I’ve thought of my diet schedule for the challenge. It will be as follows. As you know, the text in red is what I (also) eat normally. Those are also the things I enjoy the most; which is why, I’ve decided that those are just the items I will avoid for the challenge next week.

 

 

Breakfast: Milk, oats. Two bananas, a tablespoon of raisins, two saffron strands, a teaspoon of ground flax seeds, one date, ½ a teaspoon of  jaggery. 

 

Two between brekkie ‘n lunch snacks: Fruit/salad vegetable each time.  

 

Lunch: Brown rice, gravy. Fish, cooked vegetable, dessert.

 

Late afternoon: A piece of cheese, dry fruit (2 almonds, ½ a walnut, 2 cashew nuts, 1 fig, 1 apricot) and a tiny chunk of junk more often than not.

 

Early evening: Fruit with yoghurt.

 

Dinner: Cooked veggies, pita bread/brown bread. Meat, dessert.

 

No green tea through the day; just plain water.

 

 

Whoa! That’s a lot of red up there, Bestie Boy! I feel dizzy (with hunger) just looking at that!

 

 

This image is from http://roccosrevolution.com/

Thank you, Rocco, for permitting me the use of your image.

 

Your precious pooch is exactly as crestfallen as I was when I realised exactly what the challenge would entail.  

 

 

Will have to psyche Mother now because she was mighty upset when I skipped fish and meat during Lent this year. She was almost certain that without some of my fave stuff, I’d turn even more skinny. (Oh, shut yer yap. That is possible.) Worrying about my wellbeing is her privilege, and since I rarely give her the opportunity to worry, she goes a wee bit nuts when the occasion arises.  

 
 

 

So could I put my mouth where my heart is? I don’t mean stuff my face with all the food I love, e-friends. Do you think I could pull this off?

 

 

To find out, watch this space. Same place. Same time. A fortnight from now.

 

 



Thank you, You’ve Been Hooked!, for commenting on my last post.

Thank you, You’ve Been Hooked!, for liking my last post.

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P.S.: Cheerful Monk adds a footnote to every post acknowledging those who comment on her previous post. She also links the commenters’ names back to their own blogs.

 I like both these practices of acknowledging the time and effort made to comment, and the free advertising! So I’m doing what I do well – being a copycat! 



 

 

 

 

 

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